Couples

Every relationship is unique, and many of us experience our deepest moments of both joy and pain in them. If you and your partner find yourselves more frequently in the moments of pain, it may be time to allow yourselves some help. Like an individual’s life, a relationship has its own life and seasons of change.

I work with couples at various stages in their relationship – from premarital to post-retirement, thinking of having children or sending the last one out into the world.

Perhaps you and your partner find yourself mired in repetitive conflict. Perhaps you both no longer feel valued, loved or desired by the other. Perhaps there are secrets or silences that have become too heavy to bear. Perhaps there’s been infidelity, disappointment, or the loss of passion.

I can help you both to co-create a safe environment to have the difficult conversations, explore and share your feelings, hopes and longings, and help you both to get connected again.

In working with couples, I employ elements of both Imago Couples therapy and differentiation-based couples therapy.